Introduction: Finding Your Heart in Love and War
1. Getting Started in Co-Parenting
Part 1. Becoming a Stable and Effective Co-Parent
2. How on Earth Did It Come to This?
3. You Are Not Alone-Even If It Sometimes Feels Like It
4. Finding Your Stability
Part 2. It's Not about you-It's about the Kids
5. Kids in a Post-Divorce World
7. Your Children Love You Both and That's a Good Thing
Part 3. Creating a Co-Parenting Team
8. Five Categories of Co-Parenting
9. Take the Initiative: How to Begin Forming a Cooperative Colleague Partnership
11. Creating Consistent Standards for Discipline
12. Including the Stepparent
Part 4. If It Can Go Wrong
13. When Your Co-Parent Won't Cooperate
14. When the Wheels Come Off
15. Filtering Out Negative Voices
Part 5. When Co-Parenting Is Impossible
16. Abandonment-Can You Co-Parent Alone?
17. When Your Ex is Unsafe
Part 6. Moving on with Your Life
Part 7. And Into the Future
20. Co-Parenting for Life-Even After Child Support Ends
21. What Will Your Kids Remember?